Saturday, September 9, 2017

Got my toes in the sand......Sledgehammer in hand....

For 2 1/2 years we have made plans to redo our master bathroom. We have looked at countless websites, been to Home Depot/Lowes/Floor&Decor dozens of times to find the perfect fixtures, and debated the merits of shower vs. tubs until we couldn't think straight.

For 10 months we have made plans to visit Punta Cana, Dominican Republic to see a college friend of ours get married. We have secured passports for the kids, paid for resorts/flights/dog sitting, and talked up the beach until we finally got our shark-scared kids excited for snorkeling.

Then, we decided to do both a bathroom remodel AND the destination wedding vacation within two weeks of each other.

Smart? No. Not at all. Especially since we decided to hire a contractor to redo the bathroom, but we would save some money (and have some fun!) by demolishing it ourselves. Three days before we were scheduled to leave for the DR, we began knocking down walls and pulling off tile.

Give me all the sledgehammers!

It was

It was also The Hubs birthday, and he just happened to open a shirt from my parents that morning. Perfect timing!

Demoday Birthday!

If you ever get to demolish a piece of your house (or your friends house), DO IT. I want to now tear down every little piece of my humble little abode.

If, on the other hand, you ever get to book a Caribbean vacation during hurricane season, DON'T. Hurricane Irma was headed on a straight shot through the islands, and our flights were canceled. Our plan to head off to the DR for some much needed rest and relaxation was, sadly, also canceled. The upside is that it gave us more time to finish the bathroom demo, but let's be real, that's not much of an upside. I would rather be on the beach.

Oh yes, this is much better than a rum drink on a Caribbean beach that also offers day care.

Besides taking down a few walls here and there, this is my first crack at a big demo project. I was surprised at how relatively easy it was. I mean, there really isn't much to a house when you knock it down! (Rebuilding it, though, looks to be much more difficult.)

Even the littles helped! Or at least one of the littles. Safety goggles on!

I was pleased to find that behind every wall and under each piece of wood was NO water damage or leakage. I was expecting to find something that was going to cause us major headaches, money and delays, but so far we found nothing that concerns us!

So classy on our back patio.

My 'grocery getter' can haul major trash!

I think the house was originally built around this tub. Cast iron. HEAVY.

Also, I had no concept of how long it would take. When The Hubs mentioned that he wanted to work all day, quitting at 4 to shower and head off to church, I thought he was nuts. It was 10 am and we were almost done! Of course it wouldn't take until 4!  Little did I realize that once you remove the mirrors and the cabinet, your work is NOT done. Apparently, there are all sorts of other pesky things you need to do, like remove two inches of concrete from the shower all. (Yes, CONCRETE. Not cement board, but two inches of concrete on chicken wire.)

The bathroom lost about 500 lbs with the tub and another 500 with these concrete tiles down!

But we finished 90% of the demo in one day, and the other 9% took four days of half-assed finishing it up. The last 1% is taking FOREVER - we get to pick out and purchase all fixtures, tile and finishing pieces. Apparently I don't get to just buy whatever I want. I keep hearing something about "compromise" and "no, that's too girly".

Keep tuned for after pictures. I can't wait for my new bathroom to be up and running! (And not just because one bathroom for the four of us has me driving to Target for bathroom use when ours is occupied!)

I tried everything I could think of for tonight and can't seem to get these pictures to turn the right way. You'll just have to turn your head.
So pretty, right?! I think even the towel rack is original to the house.

Oh, yellow tile, I won't miss you. (But I did save some pieces for creative posterity pieces!)

It's not an awful closet. But it's about to get so much better.

Nothing left!

Monday, September 4, 2017



It's been quite a while since I shared some of our reno's here on the blog, and let me tell you, it is NOT because we haven't been doing any. It's more because posting "We changed a 1970's strobe light that never worked properly with a modern canned light" just didn't make me want to scream with excitement and shout it from the rooftops.

But that's home ownership for you. It's not always exciting.

So here is more non-excitement, except in our world.

Since we bought the house two years ago, we have wanted to move the side fence forward 30 feet. It doesn't sound like a big deal except that the fence was at an awkward place, thirty feet behind the neighbors fence. It also left the entire side of the house, including utility gauges, doors, and windows open to view.
See that fence WAAAAAAY back there? Behind the ugly AC and utility guage?!

So when The Hubs came home from work one evening with a few posts and some cement, I was ready to get started.

But it was about as exciting as watching cement set.

Because that's what we had to do. Yawwwwn.

And when I say "we", I mean The Hubs, because he spent the majority of the day measuring, cutting, cementing, and measuring some more.  I made my grand entrance with some white paint, and spent most of the day painting a desk my son was given and creating a skateboard hat rack.

My contribution to last weekend is mostly through taking pictures:

Look! I'm helping!

Best painted fence boards EVER

Watching cement set is such hard work

Removing the existing fence

The fancy skateboard rack that took me all of 10 seconds to create

But look how fun it is on the wall!
Side view
Before, with no fence and small plants

After, with growing plants and a new fence

 For those who don't remember, about four months ago we added a landscaping patch to the front yard. We bought a bunch of plants, pulled weeds, and set down rocks. Everyone helped. I am SO happy with how much it has grown, as seen in the pictures above or check out this pic from the week we moved in two years ago.

Helping to add rock

Tuesday, February 7, 2017


It's been a much slower process changing things around the house than I had anticipated. Between jobs, the kids school and activities, there doesn't seem to be the time - or money! - to fix and upgrade and work on the house.

But we are trying.

Little by little, brick by brick, it will happen.

First up for this year? A new front door.

Nothing was really wrong with our front door, if you like a flimsy door with peeling paint, no natural light and a gap between the frame and the door. Or if you like a steel framed security door with mesh that the dogs kept sticking their paws and noses through.  So we REALLY didn't like our front door.


After much debate, we finally settled on a door from Lowe's with 1/2 frosted glass on the top. Instead of a security door, we chose a storm door with a sliding screen. No mesh on the bottom means no doggies powering their way through it. (On that note, our screen door on the back door was ran into no less than FOUR times this weekend. Two kids, one adult and one dog ran through it. We need to work on that door next!)

Before and After

Before and After

With the front door open.

But we didn't stop there! I still thought it was the teensy-bit boring still and wanted to jazz it up a little bit. So now we have:

I LOVE it!  With the change this fun, bright door brought to the house, I am motivated to do all sorts of things I have been putting off. Updo the bathroom? Let's do it! Change and paint the siding? You got it! Rip out a bathtub? No problem!!!  

Don't mind the grass. We are saving on our water bill for a few months :)

Wednesday, January 25, 2017

New Years New Motto

When we moved in two years ago, a friend gifted me her kids old fish tank. I stuck it on my bar counter top, filled it with fish....and resented looking at it ever since.

Don't get me wrong, I love having fish. And I love the tank she gave us. For Christmas this year, our dogs, Murphy and Lucy, even bought our fish, Scully, a snorkeling Santa decoration piece. We LOVE our fish.

But our 1960's kitchen already had no counter top space anyways, so this fish tank took up some valuable real estate. 

Plus, when we ate dinner at the bar, I always felt a little weird eating so close to Scully's tank. Especially if it was fish sticks.

We have a beautiful built-in leading into our hallway near the kids playroom. When we first moved in two years ago, The Hubs put an old TV in there and set it up for the kiddos. "Now they can watch shows and we can still watch what we want!" he said. I wanted to decorate it with pictures and knick-knacks, but the TV fit, so I let it go. 

They have watched TV on it exactly three time. All three of those times were when we had parties and the other TVs were used for watching football or playing music. 

This week, I took the TV down and stowed it in the hall closet. (Hopefully it will be donated soon, but one step at a time!) I moved Scully and his tank into the built-in area, cleaned off the bar completely and waited for someone to notice.

The kids came home from school. "Mom, you moved Scully's tank! I love it! Now it is like a nightlight in the hallway." said my son.  He's right. The light from Scully's tank provides a nice glow in the evening. 

I waited to hear what The Hubs thought. Would he be upset the old TV was gone?

"You moved Scully's tank," he said. "I am so glad. Now we have more room on the counter top! It looks so much better."

For two years I have wanted to move that fish tank. TWO YEARS! Why did it take me so long? First, I didn't want to upset anyone. The Hubs wanted the TV there, so why should I change what he wanted? He didn't have much of a say in most of the other decorating, so I didn't want to alter one of the only things he did do. Let's be real, though - that's really over-analyzing it! He's not that sensitive. It's more like: Me make more counter space. Me get rid of TV not using. Ok?  And it was okay. 

Second, would the kids care that Scully wasn't sitting with them at the bar? They have enjoyed talking to him while they sit and eat, or do homework. Well, now they stop in the hallway to talk to him, or hang out by his fish tank reading and watching him. He is still getting just as much love and attention as he normally did. I love watching Scully swim and hide. 

What this showed me is that I can change the way things "have always been". If, as the CEO of the household, I see a better way to do things, or a solution to a common problem, I can change it very easily. I can move the fish tank

That's my new motto this year. As I tackle the New Years resolutions like everyone else, and declutter and simplify, I also want to make our items have purpose and function. Get rid of unnecessary items and put to use items that have been neglected. I need to remember that just because we have been doing something one way doesn't mean we can't try it a different way. Instead, I will remember: I can move the fish tank.